Reallife Bdsm Sessions

Session possibilities

Because of my many years of bdsm-experience, my wide bdsm-interests and my psychology background I understand all sorts of  bdsm-fetishes and interests. This makes that I can guide the beginner as well as help the experienced bdsm sub/slave in extending his bdsm-fetishes and possibilities.
Initially some kinksters don’t know which fetishes they would like most, and my goal is to help you discover this quickly, and together with you define a list with your interests.
Before the start of a session I may ask you some specific questions, based on the do’s and dont’s that you have sent me, so that I know exactly what type of session fits you best.

I am experienced in so many aspects of Bdsm, that it is hard to say what my specialties are. Perhaps creativity and variety are my specialties: each session with me is completely different.
I think I can surprise you most with my knowledge and expertise of CBT, Tease & Denial, Electro, Forced Milking / Milking machines, Analplay, Humiliation, Latexfetish, Feminization, Bootfetish (EU sizes 37-46), Complete helplessness/bondage, Roleplay.

Which style fits you most?

It helps me if you let me know which style(s) of bdsm you are most attracted to.
Each style can be applied soft-medium-hard. E.g. subtile humiliation versus extreme pervers humiliation. Or handcuffs versus bondage from top to toe with 24 meter of rope. Whips can be used without marks when done correctly. Even bdsm without pain is possible.
Bdsm-styles: (humiliation, pain, lust, helplessness, fetish)

Humiliation: Feeling arroused when a woman demonstrates her power by making you a ridiculous character. There are sub-styles, e.g. carrying out dirty instructions (perverse), goldenshower, verbal humiliation, doggyplay, spitting, sph, faceslapping, trampling, strapon sucking, slut-training, but also Goddess / Mistress worship and more.

Pain: Show how much you can take for your Mistress. At the end you will feel proud that you succeeded in taking it for her. Feel the andrenaline/endorfine and enter subspace.
Pain is to be built up step gradually, so that you will be able to accept more than you expected. Seek and expand your limits, be surprised how much your body can take for your Mistress.
Examples are CBT, whips, spanking, trampling, hard electro. Some toys feel nice and soft when applied mildly, but can also be used in a more extreme way, becoming rather painful.

Lust: The erotic bdsm side. Think of nice stimuli, soft electro, sounding, milking machines, vacuum penispump, vibrations, tease&denial, analplay, nippleplay, sensual spitting, goldenshower, facesitting and more.

Helplessness: If you can’t go anywhere and you have to wait what the Mistress has planned for you, increases your excitement and arrousal. This way you can surrender yourself completely as the slave that you are,
Bondage, confinement, bodybags, vacuumbed, facesitting, breathcontrol, heavyrubber and more.
Confiment for a longer langere period will bring you to rest, you’ll forget your busy life. You will lose any sens of time.
Just surrender.

I also distinguish various fetishes. A fetish is actually an intense arrousal for certrain objects, e.g. high heels, boots, latex, leather, feet, pantyhoses and more.

Of course I respect your limits, and you can use a ‘safe word’ during a session.